I can't believe I fall for it every single time no matter how many times it's happened before! I don't think I'll ever learn or not hope for once I've found a real catch and we obviously can't teach men how not to effect us like this.. So let's say a guy hasn't msg'd or been around for a few days leaving you wondering if he's moved as he certainly hasn't been thinking of you like you have been him.. then finally sends a text with:
What are you up to tonight?
I, or let's just say the girl, always reads this as if it says:
Sorry I've been busy, babe, but I intend to make it up to you. What are you doing tonight?
Going crazy.. wanting to see you! Come watch that movie or do that thing you said earlier we'd do sometime this week and you have to work the rest of it other than tonight, right?
What time is your thing tomorrow?
I'll try to make it but I have to switch my shift at work.
You're not coming over tonight are you?
Now she feels worse than she would have if she hadn't even heard from him instead of being lifted by her wishes, hopes, and spoken promises... and then dropped back down to Earth causing another crack to appear in her heart.